The option for turning off grief emotes has never worked properly. Some grief emotes bypass it entirely. It blocks maybe half of most grief emotes. Many grief emotes also violate the grief emote global cooldown, making it possible to launch a grief emote barrage. I have experienced these things many times over the last couple months. People nowadays have no notion of courtesy or restraint. Playing at night is the only thing that actually helps.
Sophie the Enchantress - Creator, Dreamer, Explorer - Happy yet Sad - Seeker of Beauty and Wonder
I wish all of you many successful and happy adventures., brave Ladies and Lords of Middle Earth!